Here are the long list of rules applying to our party scene.
Club Crave Party And Event Rules
Club Crave/Naughty List Of Middle Tennessee Rules:
We put a priority on providing a safe, secure, fun atmosphere with an emphasis on respecting others.
Our party rules will strictly be enforced at all events
1. No weapons of any kind.
2. No means No. Be respectful. No stalking or creepy behavior allowed. Do not constantly ask the same person over and over again to play. Once the answer of no is given, move on.
3. Treat everyone with dignity and respect.
4. Closed doors to bedrooms usually means the people want privacy, unless you are a significant other or have been specifically invited into said bedroom stay out. The option is yours if you want the bedroom door closed for privacy or open for non-privacy
5. Do NOT lock the doors to any rooms.
6. Clean up your own mess no matter what kind it is or how bad the mess may be!
7. NO PICTURES ARE ALLOWED AT THE PARTIES OR EVENTS. We used to allow them under strict guidance however even that didn't get followed.
8. Drugs are not allowed at the event. (If you have them leave them in the car or your own motel room etc)
9. Prostitution is not allowed!
10. There are some events where people skilled in the art of massage will be giving massages. You are not to bother these people unless you are the significant other or have been specificially called upon to touch, play etc.
11. BDSM scenes, kink and fetish scenes are allowed and encouraged. Please undergo this type play in bedrooms. At motel block parties, there will be a designated area for such play. Respect the area and the people in that area. Give them their space and do not interfere.
12. Club Crave/Naughty List Of Middle Tennessee is not responsible for any stolen lost or damaged property. You are encouraged to leave your valuables locked up in your car, your motel room or wherever.
13. Over consumption of alcohol....Been there done it nobody's gonna judge you for it. However you or your significant other needs to clean up any messes you make.
14. Condom usage is up to the lady individual and her significant other. Once the lady gives you her decision, do not question that decision act accordingly.
15. All Club Crave parties will start at 8p. Couples and single females may arrive at 7:30 to get settled in. Single males may arrive no earlier than 8:00. That means no hanging out in the hallway. Doors close at 8:30 unless you have a valid family or work obligation excuse and will be late in accordance to those obligations. If this is the case you MUST let me know as soon as possible so I can make notes.
16. Automatic bans for life for people who ask the following:
1. How many people are you expecting?
2. How many people are presently there?
3. Will you send us pictures or give us details of what's happening right now at the party?
There's probably more questions that will earn a ban but those are three for starters.
Considering the circumstances being the adjoining motel rooms are decent size but still we need more room (but we work with what we are given being that it's inexpensive) and people's concerns with COVID-19, we get a much smaller turnout than we have had at previous parties but we still have some wall to wall fun times.
17. No more texting, texting, texting and not showing up. That gets way old! From here on out, anyone who pulls that shit will be banned from parties or events. You get a limit of three questions you can ask with one being the room number or address....choose the other two questions wisely!
18. Next thing is geared more to the men than the women. I understand some are in “open” relationships, or poly etc. Unless we've discussed your situation and you have a significant other listed in your profile and I've given you the green light to come without that significant other than you need to come as a couple. People at our parties are respectful towards others. No one is made to do anything they feel is uncomfortable. All open minded non drama causing people no matter their kink, fetish or lifestyle is welcome. I'm getting emails from various places that we place parties in from too many guys wanting to get their dick worked over while leaving their significant other at home hiding behind the idea they are in an open relationship or claiming the poly ticket. Not cool, not acceptable. We do have some people who are honestly in these situations and it's understandable and I will allow them to attend but then there's a whole new bunch of others who aren't really in these situations but they'll claim it so they can have fun while leaving the significant other behind.
19. This ties in with above rule.There will be NO more Doms allowed at parties to which their significant other is not present with them (if it applies). Furthermore, a Dom may not bring more than two submissives or submissives prospects to any party. If you have a significant other then since it is required you bring them, you may only bring one other submissive role dynamic female. Those attempting to break the rule will be thrown out or not let in in the first place.
Not putting up with “collectors” anymore.